Books are a lovely way to introduce concepts to kids in a fun, memorable, and non-threatening way. Whether you are trying to introduce a new character trait – such as kindness or responsibility – or trying to correct a behaviour – such as lying or hitting – here are some of my favourite character education books for kids.
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Excuse Me!: A Little Book of Manners is a sweet and simple lift-the-flap book to teach toddlers basic manners (please, thank you, sorry, etc). It offers a fun way to teach and reinforce everyday phrases we want our young children to learn.
Words Are Not for Hurting is an introduction to how words can be used for good and bad. With an aim to help kids empathise with who they are talking to and learn appropriate behaviour, it offers an easy avenue to discuss why we say “sorry” and why we should focus on being kind. Great for toddlers and preschoolers. Other books in the Best Behaviour board book series are aimed at correcting undesirable behaviours and offering children a better choice. They include: Hands Are Not for Hitting ; Teeth Are Not for Biting ; Feet Are Not for Kicking
Calm-Down Time shows a young child techniques for calming down even when they feel upset inside. More books in the Toddler Tools board book series include: Sharing Time ; Manners Time ; Listening Time. These books are wonderful to read one on one or in a group of children, as they feature interactions between kids, sometimes in a classroom setting.
Cookies: Bite-Size Life Lessons is one of my favourite concept books to learn about character traits because all the situations are related to cookies! This makes it totally relatable to kids as well as interesting. For example, “Generous means offering some to others” with a picture of a cat handing out cookies to all her friends. A fun read for children and adults, complete with a cookie recipe in the back.
Have You Filled a Bucket Today? A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids is a powerful introduction to what kindness is and how we gain happiness from helping, not hurting, others. Great for explaining why bullying doesn’t make any one feel better in the long run and gives easy examples of how kids can “fill buckets” every day.
Bucket Filling from A to Z: The Key to Being Happy is the follow-up book to the one listed above, and goes a bit deeper into what it means to be a “Bucket Filler.” These are two of my sons’ favourite books at the moment (they are 3 an 6 years old) and I know older children love them too. Being a “Bucket Filler” is a simple yet profound concept, and it really makes sense to kids and adults alike. Highly recommend both these books.
The Way I Act shows character traits in action, giving kids examples of how they might practice good character every day. Ending with an inspirational line about how actions show who we are and who we want to be, it’s a lovely addition to any family’s collection of character education books.
We Can Get Along: A Child’s Book of Choices is a wonderful avenue to introduce healthy relationship habits to kids. It goes through basic feelings and choices that kids experience when interacting with their peers, and offers encouragement to make good choices to deal with these. The illustrations are detailed and interesting, and overall the book offers a non-threatening, positive way to help children consider the everyday choices they make.
The Learning to Get Along series is an amazing collection of books covering topics such as honesty, generosity, being afraid, taking turns, following the rules and more. Bright descriptive pictures engage kids and really get the concepts across. Great for classrooms as well as families. These books are recommended for children ages 4-8 however quite a few were appropriate for my oldest son when he was three, and he absolutely adored them. You can really cover a lot of questions with this series.
Be Honest and Tell the Truth
Accept and Value Each Person
Respect and Take Care of Things
Share and Take Turns
Be Polite and Kind
Cool Down and Work Through Anger
Know and Follow Rules
Talk and Work It Out
Join In and Play
Understand and Care
Try and Stick with It
Listen and Learn
When I Feel Afraid
Be Careful and Stay Safe
Character Building Day by Day: 180 Quick Read-Alouds for Elementary School and Home is a book I am currently reading with my kids a few times a week. This is different than the other books listed above as it’s not a “concept book” but has actual short stories to exemplify the various character traits. Meant for older children, it’s more appropriate for my 6 year old but my 3 year old is still learning from the discussions we have after each story.
There are also some gorgeous personalised books by I See Me – at least two of which focus on character building themes:
M is for Me goes through the ABCs listing character traits such as friendly, generous, patient, and wise. Not only does your child’s name appear on the cover and in several places throughout the book but you can also have a note and photograph printed on the inside AND choose a colour scheme! The book offers a great starting point to discuss positive qualities and boost self esteem, and would make a gorgeous gift. Find out more here.
I Can Change the World puts your child into a story about offering acts of kindness to others! What a lovely and empowering book for children to enjoy. Find out more here.
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I See Me has kindly offered one Moments A Day reader the opportunity to personalise a copy of I Can Change the World for their child. The competition is open to residents of all countries (shipping will be included) and closes on 5 December 2014.
To enter the competition to win a copy of I Can Change the World simply answer the following question:
What was your favourite or most memorable gift as a child and why?
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Rachel | Racheous - Lovable Learning
My most memorable gift as a child was a red microscope that I pleaded for. I vividly remember opening it in awe and the hours of exploration thereafter!
We would love to win a copy of I Can Change the World 🙂
P.S. What a brilliant list of resources!
Kate - The Craft Train
What a lot of lovely book suggestions, thank you. The gifts that come to mind for me as childhood favourites are my grandmothers packages that she sent us every Christmas. They were always filled with little handmade goodies that she bought from the local craft markets, and she would store them away over the year and then send them to us all at once as a gift. They included things like crocheted bookmarks, washcloth bunnies with a soap, hand-sewn handbags etc. and we always loved them.
Trude
Whenever I was unwell, my Mum would make me a bed on the couch. She would go out and get me my favourite food and a book to read while I recovered. These are my my most memorable gifts.
Lua Ivoghlian
Thank you for the great book recommendations Chelsea! We already own a few like ” Have you filled your bucket , ” The way I act and a couple more from the Learning to get along series and we have a great time reading it…best books we have invested into ever!! we would be honored to win this one:)
My favorite memory/ gift as a child were visits from my grandma and relatives during holidays since we lived in a small pioneering town in India and pretty isolated from all our family! It would be an amazing treat to see my grandparents come all the way from Iran or our aunt uncle and my aunt, uncle and cousins drive all the way from a another town and surprise us in the middle of the night! and we would play and have fun until morning! 🙂 Material/physical gifts were lovely when we received them and made us happy but nothing trumped this!
Laurie
My most memorable gift from my childhood was when we got a trampoline. All that day, I wasn’t allowed to go into or even see the backyard. My older brothers and Dad were putting together what I was told was a swing set. When they finished, my brother blindfolded me, picked me up “to go down the slide,” and then threw me through the air to land on the trampoline! Talk about shock!! 🙂 But that’s definitely the most memorable gift I and our family received!
Rebecca
My most memorable gift was a wee orange care bear teddy that i got given during a hospital stay for being so brave. It made me feel so proud and reminded me of what I could do. It was well loved!
Lou
My Grandpa was a librarian and stories just rippled from him. Also a keen gardener his gift to me was time and repeated opportunities to explore the natural world with his beautiful voice offering the backdrop of a soundscape to each of our adventures. Heaven. Thank you for your thoughtful, mindful, inspired take Chelsea. Fingers crossed we might be lucky enough to win a copy of I Can Change the World.
Tami
My most memorable gift received was Ted. Ted E. Bear. I was 8. Much too old for a teddy bear I told myself, while secretly longing for him. Many a night before Christmas my prayers were consumed by this conflicting desire. By Christmas Eve, convinced I could not possibly receive a teddy bear at the whopping age of 8, I had resolved stoicly that I would not cry. I was and would be grateful for the gifts I would receive. We opened our gifts Christmas Eve… Christmas morning Ted sat under the tree with my name on him. And I did cry. And cry and cry. For real joy is knowing in your core that God wants the desires in your heart and will provide what you need, when you need it. I learned to humble myself and trust. And this was the greatest gift.
Yvonne C
I grew up in a farming family where shopping in town was a day trip and time was the most valuable thing one could give. My most memorable gift was my parents coming to school events to see me in plays or accepting awards. My mom passed away last year and I just received a books of my school things. She had saved photos, merit certificates, crafts and others. She never told me she had them and looking at them brought up memories that after 30+ years you forgets. My answer is the gift of your time and attention.
Aly
My most memorable gift was my purple bike I received at Christmas time. I have many fond memories going on bike rides with my sister through the neighborhood on that bike : )
Marti
Thank you for sharing this amazing selection of books! My infancy was spent in quite remarkable material and emotional poverty compared to other families around us (more for an selfish choice of my parents than for real necessity). So I usually received a white underwear t-shirt or a pair of thick scratching socks for Christmas (and I always wondered why since I tried soooo hard to be good).
So well, the really most amazing Christmas was when, I was like 4-5, my 10 years older sister (that usually refused to play with me) prepared a home made gift for everyone. For me was a dress for my doll, hand sewed with a white-red little flower fabric from a old shirt of her…You remind me I should thank her for that wonderful warming surprise!
smaro (Greece)
I was a preschooler when I received a spherical map of the world-a globe. I was excited, I could travel to anywhere with just a move of my hand, I had the world on my hands. What is more was that it had a light inside, therefore I could use it as a night light…My fear of darkness went away and I had the whole world mine. There was nothing else to ask for..!
Lisa
My most memorable gift was my cabbage patch doll. She was my favorite for years!
Leanna @ Alldonemonkey
My most memorable gifts were all books! I especially remember a beautiful copy of Little Women that I received as a birthday present from a friend. It was a gorgeous edition, and I was so pleased to have to have such a beautiful copy, and that she had remembered how much I loved the book.